If you’re reading an advice column and would like to determine if the columnist’s judgment is reliable, read the person’s advice on matters of which you are an expert. For example, if you’re a woman reading a column about a man’s dating expectations and you’d like to know if you can rely upon the columnist’s advice, [...]
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Sanity Check On Dating (Or Other) Advice
Posted in Dating, tagged Advice, Advice Columns, Attraction, Columns, Dating, Love, Relationships, Romance on 2012/05/31 | Leave a Comment »
Additional Things Guys Like But Won’t Tell You
Posted in Dating, Improving Relationships, tagged Attraction, Dating, Happiness, Love, Massage, Relationships, Romance on 2012/03/20 | 1 Comment »
Following are additional things guys like but wont tell you. Ear nibbles Kisses along the shell of his ear Scalp massages Shoulder and neck rubs Compliments Generally, it’s a safe bet that if you like something, your guy will like it, too.
Posted in Dating, Personal Enrichment, tagged Dating, Friends, Happiness, Life, Love, Pleasure, Relationship, Valentine on 2012/02/14 | Leave a Comment »
Put work in its place. It’s Valentine’s Day. Go out and enjoy it!
Ahhh, The Benefits Of Swimming….
Posted in Beauty, Dating, tagged Aerobics, Dating, Exercise, Fun, Health, Muscle, Pleasure, Relationships, Swimming on 2012/01/21 | Leave a Comment »
There are great benefits to swimming for men and women. For women – even those uncomfortable with their appearance – it’s a great way to find a date for a number of reasons. For example, there’s less competition. Generally, health club pools are dominated by men. Often, women at a health club pool tend to [...]
Don’t Be Afraid To Say Hello – All Relationships Begin With A Greeting
Posted in Dating, Improving Relationships, tagged Clubs, Courage, Dancing, Dating, Friendship, Love, Relationships, Romance on 2012/01/08 | Leave a Comment »
Being shy or reserved is natural. Meeting people can require effort, even for extroverts. Striking up a conversation with someone you don’t know requires courage. Displaying such courage has its rewards: because most people feel they do not have this courage in themselves, they are impressed when it is exhibited by someone else. Often, the [...]
Posted in Dating, Improving Relationships, Lessons From Divorce, Things Better Off Said, tagged Breakup, Children & Family, Death, Divorce, Love, Relationship on 2011/11/21 | Leave a Comment »
Relationships don’t last forever and people don’t live forever. It’s important to keep socially active so that a person is not left hanging, trying to develop new relationships and strengthen old, later in life.
Breakups Are Not Always The End
Posted in Dating, Improving Relationships, tagged Attraction, Boyfriend, Break-Up, Breakup, Dating, Divorce, Friends, Friendship, Girlfriend, Happiness, Love, Marriage, Relationship on 2011/07/15 | Leave a Comment »
Breakups are a natural part of building relationships. Breakups tend to occur frequently as boundaries are tested and asserted in the early stages of a relationship, and more dramatically as the relationship develops. Be patient. Be sensibly forgiving. Given time, you’re likely to find that the reason for breaking up wasn’t as devastating as first credited.
Revel In The Love You Share
Posted in Dating, Family Enrichment, Improving Relationships, Things Better Off Said, tagged Attraction, Beau, Boyfriend, Communication, Dating, Girlfriend, Happiness, Husband, Life, Love, Partner, Pleasure, Spouse, Wife on 2011/06/28 | Leave a Comment »
We’re all busy. Don’t let your schedule get in the way of taking time to revel in the love you share with your partner, or the appreciation you feel for your partner. There’s a good chance you’ll never know how much time you’ll have with your partner before it’s too late.
Cogent Communication Of Attraction
Posted in Beauty, Dating, Improving Relationships, Psychology, tagged Affection, Amore, Appeal, Attraction, Beauty, Communication, Dating, Desire, Feedback, Gifts, Happiness, Lingerie, Love, Perspective, Physical Appearance, Physical Attraction, Pleasure, Relationship, Romance, Style on 2011/06/14 | Leave a Comment »
If you’d like to cogently communicate to your partner your appreciation of her figure, present to her a gift of lingerie you’d like to see her wear. This conveys that you find her so appealing that you enjoy and seek opportunities to view her body. (Usually, such gifts are modelled for the gift-giver.) Also, giving gifts of lingerie demonstrates an interest in participating in your partner’s process of [...]
Don’t Let The Break-Up Break You
Posted in Dating, Family Enrichment, Improving Relationships, Lessons From Divorce, tagged Blame, Break-Up, Breakup, Children & Family, Dating, Divorce, Happiness, Life, Love, Marriage, Partner, Pleasure, Relationship, Romance, Separation, Split, Spouse on 2011/05/04 | 2 Comments »
It takes two to maintain a relationship, only one to break it. Sometimes a person’s leaving has nothing to do with you. Sometimes there’s nothing more you can do. Blaming yourself under these circumstances not only gets you nowhere, it takes you nowhere.
Nothing To Fear But Our Imaginations
Posted in Dating, Getting Ahead, Personal Enrichment, Psychology, tagged Axiom, Behavior, Business, Dating, Enrichment, Fear, Franklin Roosevelt, Happiness, Imagination, Irrational, Love, Paranoia, Perspective, Pres Roosevelt, Problem Solving, Psychology, Quotes, Rational on 2011/03/13 | Leave a Comment »
“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” (President Franklin D. Roosevelt, in his 1933 inaugural address.) We fear because we have imagination – we imagine what can happen to us. Without that, what or why would we fear? For example, why do most people fear heights? Because they imagine themselves falling. (Even though the source of fear is our imagination, [...]
Posted in Dating, tagged Axiom, Beauty, Dating, Happiness, Infatuation, Love, Stalking, Wealth on 2011/03/01 | Leave a Comment »
Common axiom generously filled with truth: Unrecipocated love is infatuation. If you’re stalking, move on. Find someone more receptive to your interest. Try to be open-minded and open-eyed. True happiness might not come in a package of beauty and/or wealth.
Posted in Dating, Lessons From Divorce, Personal Enrichment, tagged Attraction, Axiom, Dating, Friends, Friendship, Happiness, Love, Marriage, Matchmaker, Pleasure on 2011/02/28 | Leave a Comment »
Old matchmaker’s axiom: To ensure a lifetime of happiness and satisfaction, marry a person that loves you more than you do him.
Create The Appearance Of Larger Breasts In A Business Suit
Posted in Beauty, Dating, Getting Ahead, Natural Remedies, Psychology, tagged Appealing, Appearance, Attire, Attraction, Attractive, Augmentation, Beauty, Bigger Boobs, Bigger Breasts, Boobs, Breasts, Business Suit, Cute, Dating, Desire, Dress, Employment, Etiquette, Jobs, Office Politics, Performance Evaluation, Sex Appeal, Sexual, Sexy, Small Waist, Suit, Wardrobe, Women on 2011/01/06 | Leave a Comment »
Women with small breasts, or large stomachs in comparison to the size of their breasts, can make their breasts look larger and their stomachs smaller in business suits by buttoning their suit jacket up to, but no higher than, just under their breasts. The lapels of the jacket swell out, which, enhanced by a dress shirt buttoned [...]
To Get What You Want, Be Forthcoming
Posted in Dating, Family Enrichment, Improving Relationships, tagged Communication, Dating, Enrichment, Expectations, Feedback, Friendship, Gifts, Happiness, Life, Love, Pleasure, Presents, Relationship, Sharing on 2011/01/02 | Leave a Comment »
If you have a partner that historically has not been the most thoughtful gift giver, be honest with the person and provide him guidance on what you want. It’s inequitable to hold a person to expectations that have not been communicated to him. Plus, it will ensure a more satisfying event.
Success Requires Risk
Posted in Business, Dating, Getting Ahead, Improving Relationships, Personal Enrichment, tagged Business, Dating, Job Search, Life, Networking, Relationship, Risk, Success on 2010/11/15 | Leave a Comment »
Success requires accepting risk and not being embarrassed by the chances you take. It means caring about the quality of your actions, but not obsessing over what others think of your actions. It also means being conscientious of your audience and how your actions affect others. For example, calling 911 for a date might attract loonies, but [...]
Things Guys Like But Won’t Tell You
Posted in Dating, tagged Attraction, Chocolates, Dating, Eskimo Kisses, Gifts, Happiness, Hugs, Love, Loved, Manicure, Massage, Nuzzling, PDA, Pedicure, Snuggling, Snugs, Spa, Special Treatment, Surprises, Waxing on 2010/11/05 | Leave a Comment »
Following is a list of items many guys like but won’t tell you. Hugs Snugs (snuggling) Surprise gifts Flowers Chocolates Entwining feet Subtle PDA (public displays of affection) Entwining fingers Laughter in response to their jokes Being told that they are loved Massages Special treatment “Eskimo” kisses or nuzzling Some men even enjoy spas, eyebrow shaping, and professional manicures and [...]
A Path To Creating Vegetarians
Posted in Dating, Improving Relationships, Natural Remedies, Penny Recipes, Politics, tagged Carnivore, Dating, Diet, Food, Health, Herbivore, Meat, Meat Eaters, Omnivore, Partner, Relationship, Vegan, Vegetables, Vegetarianism, Vegetarians on 2010/10/25 | Leave a Comment »
If you’d like to convince your partner to go vegetarian, invite him to a meat tasting tour – to meat processing facilities.
Tool For Making Consequential Decisions
Posted in Business, Dating, Family Enrichment, Finances, Getting Ahead, House Matters, Improving Relationships, Job Search, Lessons From Divorce, Manage Successfully, Personal Enrichment, Resignation Tips, tagged Decision Making, Decisions, Goals, Guidance, Life, Making Decisions, Priorities, Problem Solving, Resign, Resignation, Successful Management, What to do? on 2010/09/24 | Leave a Comment »
Trying to make a big decision, such as leaving a job or buying a house? The following steps might aid in making the decision. Identify your goals and priorities. To the extent possible, establish measurements for these two items. Identify why you want to make the decision. What are the differences achieved by the decision? [...]
